Saturday, February 24, 2007
CARLY'S MEMORIAL SERVICE AND BURIAL
Flowers are a welcome symbol of the godly woman Carly was blooming into these short years of her life. If you wish to send flowers to adorn the services please send them to the following address for arrival by 12:00 noon on Friday March 2nd:
Cochrane's Chapel of the Roses
103 Lincoln Street
Roseville, CA 95678
(916) 783-7171
SERVICES
Friday March 2, 2007, 4pm to 8pm
Viewing at Cochrane's Chapel of the Roses
103 Lincoln Street
Roseville, CA 95678
(916) 783-7171
Light food and drinks will be served in a side-room
Saturday March 3, 2007, 8:30am to 10am
Viewing at Cochrane's Chapel of the Roses
10am to 10:30am
Procession from Cochrane's to Roseville Cemetery
10:30am to 11:30am
Graveside Service at Roseville Cemetery
421 Berry St.
Roseville, CA 95678
(916) 783-3131
11:30am to 12:00pm
Procession to Memorial Service
Roseville Cemetery to Valley Springs Presbyterian Church
A light lunch will be served from 12:00pm to 1:00pm
1:00pm to 3:00pm (times are approximate)
Memorial Service at Valley Springs Presbyterian Church
2401 Olympus Drive
Roseville, CA 95661
(916) 786-7940
3:00pm to 5:00pm (times are approximate)
Time of Fellowship
Valley Springs Presbyterian Church
A potluck dinner will be served
VISITING THE FAMILY
Friday, February 23, 2007
DONATIONS IN CARLY'S HONOR
A number of families have stated that they want to contribute financially to the Wisniewski’s to help with Carly’s death, funeral, and memorial service expenses. We have set up a Memorial Fund, therefore, to assist the Wisniewski family with those expenses. This Memorial Fund will be administered by Cornerstone Christian School.
Also, in memory of Carly, the Wisniewski family is starting an Endowment Fund administered by Cornerstone Christian School, to help pay for programs related to the things Carly loved such as art, photography, and poetry. It is the family’s intent to assist students while at Cornerstone Christian School who are involved in such programs.
Should you be interested in contributing in Carly’s honor to any one of these funds, please designate which fund you are directing your gift to and send to the address below.
Cornerstone Christian School
ATTN: Carly Wisniewski’s Memorial
143 Clinton Avenue
Roseville, CA 95678.
Should you have any specific questions, please do not hesitate to contact Michelle Schiffel at (916) 783-7779.
Tuesday, February 20, 2007
PURPOSE OF THE BLOG
When a young person dies it is normal for us to question, "Why?" We believe the Lord has something special he wants to teach all of us through Carly’s death. There is something meaningful in it…her death is not a complete loss. There is something redemptive in it. It is our hope that you will be very touched by Carly’s life, artwork, photography, poems, essays, and final words in her most recent blog posts. Please join with us in celebrating Carly’s life and ministry.
ABOUT US

Carly outside of her classroom in the summer of 2006
How We Lost Our Jewel
On Sunday morning, though, her fever was back, so she stayed home from church. By the evening, her fever was very high, her pulse was fast and she still could not talk and in fact, seemed labored in her breathing. Mary called the Doctor who recommended medicines to lower her fever and to take her in to the doctor the next day.
On Monday morning, February 19th, we took her to the doctor (not our family physician because of the holiday) and picked up a prescription for antibiotics. She came home but just tossed and turned, going from the couch to her bed and back to the couch. She just couldn’t sleep. We were just waiting for the medicine to work and for Carly to start feeling better…
Later, in the evening, she told Mom she was going to lie down on her bed and Mary and I went about a few chores. We were very worried and about ready to take her to the doctor again. Mary made arrangements to stay home from work the next day to be with Carly.
Fifteen minutes later, around 8:05pm, Mary went to check on Carly and she was not breathing and had no pulse. Mary administered CPR and mouth-to-mouth resuscitation while I called 911. The police and paramedics arrived very quickly and took over for Mary and tried to bring Carly back. At one point I overheard them saying they had a pulse, and we caught a glimmer of hope. Later though, we learned that they had used special medication to induce the pulse.
At the hospital the doctors and medics tried for over an hour but to no avail. In hindsight we are afraid Carly may have left us before Mary went to check on her. We may learn more when the coroner’s report is finished or we may never know the rest until we get to heaven. We know she loved the Lord with all her heart, soul, mind and body so we know she is happy. But there is such a devastating hole left in our hearts. I believe in miracles, but to see God NOT answer our immediate request for the miracle to spare her life, makes me think He has a much bigger plan for a bigger miracle through all this…..I just may not get to see what that is for a long time.
We are hurting; we are on faces before the Lord. Thank you to all who have, who continue to and who will reach out to us though cards, prayers, phone calls, visits, caring for our physical needs and supporting us in great and small ways. We love you…..God loves you! We wouldn’t be making it without you!
PICTURES
If you have any pictures of Carly you would like to share, please let us know. Email Doris at missdorispop@hotmail.com.
Kassia giving Carly a big bear hug, 1994, Yuba City
One of my favorites
Barefootin'
Too beautiful for words
My cup runneth over
You wanna piece of me?

Peace

Joy
Kassia and Carly

Summer 2006

Carly (left, in the back row) with her friends in Europe-- Summer 2006

I have about 15 'anonymous' pictures from Carly, all from either "Who" or "Guess Who". I would find them in my jacket pocket, on my desk, in my inbox, on my chair...you name it, Carly hid a note there. She culminated this 'Guess Who' series with a silly picture saying that it was her the whole time (I already knew that...). This is my favorite picture she drew for me. It's me and her holding hands.
Happy Independence Day!
Deep in thought...Summer 2006
Carly and Kassia (first and fourth, from left) in Europe with friends

Babe
Carly and some of her dear friends at the 2006 JSA Fall State Convention 
Best best bestest friends wreaking havoc in the kitchen
Carly (third from left) and her friends in Scotland
Summer 2006
Carly and her Photography Class buddies
Carly, looking beautiful, at Cornerstone's 2005 Winter FormalThis picture comes to us from Mrs. Brown (a.k.a. Miss Noxon), who was Carly's teacher in 2nd Grade. Carly is celebrating "Literature Day" with two of her young friends.
Left to right: Carly, cousin Bethany, Kassia, Cousin Sandra
First Blood!
Carly and Mandy in Scotland
Carly on top of the world in Scotland (now she is looking down at the clouds)

First Days
Carly chillin' with Steve Crooke, best man in her mom & dad's wedding
Carly and Kassia having a smiling contest. (I think Carly is winning.)
Kassia demanded a rematch, this one may be a tie.
Lisa, Kassia, Rachel, Carly taking it easy
Carly getting passed around by beloved neighbors in Yuba City
Sweet fellowship --- Prelude to Heaven!
Carly and Kassia having an old-fashioned gurning contest. Looks like a tie to me!
Our first fixer-upper! (It was home to us!)

Carly with Dad and uncle Mark (Not sure if Mark wants to get in on the smiling contest or the gurning contest!)


One of Carly's personal favorites, possibly her most favorite. This one has been on her dresser for years and years.

With cousin Natalie, more like sisters.
At Vern Sasaki's summer hideout, fresh king salmon!


